Oh, boy...

"What we ask reveals what we consider important. What we consider important determines what we find out. What we find out informs what we choose to say or do. If we aren't asking the right questions, we can't even imagine what we ought to say. If we are asking the right questions, it gives body to whatever we're thinking of saying next."

God, give me wisdom to ask the right questions. Ask the ones that are actually important. Give me wisdom in this situation and show me how I can best glorify You.